Thank you Derrick for your feedback. As it was our first time hosting, I can see that it could have been helpful for us to leave you some sort of list telling you where you could find actual glasses (not plastic) and coffee mugs -- they are in a higher up cabinet so our toddler can't get to them. I also should include on that list the contents of the two linen closets upstairs: one with games, dvds, extra pillows and towels and the other linen closet has all the extra sheets, blankets, bedding.
As for the sleeping arrangements, there are pictures of all the "kid" bedrooms online with descriptions of their size (twin/single) and the couches are available to use if desired or necessary. I'm sorry if that was not to your liking.
I chose to not empty out our fridges/freezers since your party was only going to be there for two nights, but I will take that feedback into consideration for future guests.
All in all, I will take your feedback as constructive. I will point out that I do not agree with your 3* rating, since the majority of your issues are with things that were written in the description of the home on the listing and the house was really quite clean. Thank you for your review and insights on where to improve.